What have you noticed about the difference between the way you and other generations (up or down) use social media?

I stumbled across a wonderful article that deals with the intersection of two of my favourite topics: intergenerational issues and the impact of social media on society. It analyses the starkly different ways that Facebook is used by Baby Boomers, as opposed to Millenials. It comes from a web site called The Cheat Sheet, which is “dedicated to providing audiences the information they want in an approachable, entertaining way”. But looking at the content and the presentation, it looks much more like advertising-ridden viral click bait (which it probably is). While I might be old fashioned, to me the term “cheat sheet” brings to mind a memory aid concise enough to sneak into an exam. Because the actual content of the article is so good, I’m reproducing it here in a true “cheat sheet” form!

Baby Boomers	Millennials
Connect with old friends	Make new friends
Value family connections	Prefer to not have family connections
Tend to overshare	Share the highlights of their lives
Do not use Facebook as their sole news source	Use Facebook as their primary news source
More likely to fall for scams	Less likely to fall for scams
Use Facebook to rekindle old flames	Use Tinder and other sites to kindle new flames
Use Facebook to bookmark sites	Use the browser’s bookmark to keep track

So now that you have a real cheat sheet, let’s talk about what it means. There are some interesting themes here.

Friendship & Family: Boomers have accumulated plenty of friends already, and have had their share of relationships. So their approach is to reconnect rather than expand their network. Millennials are at a stage in life where they are expanding their personal networks and are less interested in family relationships. When I joined Facebook, there was a group (remember groups?) doing the rounds called “OMG my Mom’s on Facebook” as the young people expressed shock at the idea of their mothers invading their social media world. It seemed funny to me at the time, until a few years later when my mother (who was around 80) joined!

Media: For Boomers, social media augments traditional media – they get news from both. For Millennials, social media supercedes traditional media, so their newsfeed is their source of news. This is actually very significant, because it enhances the ‘echo chamber’ effect of social media (as users just see what their friends like and share) , and further erodes the value of online news sources, which are becoming less financially viable.

Technology: Millennials are far more tech savvy than Boomers, so understand the specific use of other platforms like Tinder, and other tools like browsers. They also know how to spot a scam a mile off.

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Consider This: How do you explain your family wealth to young children? At what do you start this process? How do you say ‘no’ to them and place limits on their spending when they reply “but we can afford it”?

Affluenza and entitle-itis are some of the newest ‘diseases’ that afflict the wealthy, and of course there is always the ubiquitous ‘privilege’ that almost everyone is now obliged to check.

In her book Uneasy Street: The Anxieties of Affluence, Rachel Sherman, associate professor of sociology, has interviewed 50 affluent parents in and around NYC to understand the challenges they face raising children with wealth.

They are somewhat torn between stigma of wealth and the competitive environment in which they live. Attitudes to wealth have changed, and while parents want to give their children the opportunities that come with wealth, they still want to keep them ‘normal’ and able to mix comfortably in (and be accepted by) broad social circles.

As much as ‘tough love’ is needed to limit spoiling, it’s also essential to teach children to be comfortable with wealth, and to appreciate what it brings to their lives. Take it, but don’t take it for granted.

Original article: https://aeon.co/ideas/how-new-yorks-wealthy-parents-try-to-raise-unentitled-kids, http://press.princeton.edu/titles/11096.html (the book)

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I think the notion of generational wars is a perpetual myth (or perhaps a perpetual truth). Every generation has certain influences which drive their attitudes (political & social) and thus the policies enacted by their leaders. It’s very easy to point cross-generational fingers of blame, but very hard to sit in the other-generational seat and play judge.

Have the Baby Boomers ruined the US economy (and the world) for the Millenials? That’s what Bruce Gibney asserts in his book A Generation of Sociopaths: How the Baby Boomers Betrayed America. Gibney lays blame on the Boomers that have controlled Congress for decades for the huge increase in the debt-to-GDP ratio, the under-investment in infrastructure, and inaction on climate change. He claims that it all stems from their lack of investment in the future.

UK academic Dr Beverley Searle agrees somewhat, stating that the blame sits with politicians’ funding decisions which makes the welfare state unsustainable, but deflects the notion of blaming Boomers for the benefits they enjoyed.

Further, I think Gibney is using the Boomers and Millennials labels as proxies for conservatives and progressives. The policy approaches of Boomers that he condemns are conservative policies, and he is a progressive. He might be better off calling a spade a spade rather than masking a political argument as an intergenerational one.

The Pew Research Center’s March report “The Generation Gap in American Politics” makes for interesting reading. While it shows younger people being more progressive, it doesn’t explore whether there are generational drivers and what they might be.

Consider This: In your family, are the older generations more politically conservative than the younger ones? To what extent are their differences driven by generational influences rather than politics?

Original articles: https://www.vox.com/2017/12/20/16772670/baby-boomers-millennials-congress-debt, Gibney’s book https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/bruce-cannon-gibney/a-generation-of-sociopaths/9780316395809/, https://www.scotsman.com/news/attacks-on-greedy-baby-boomers-are-unjustified-says-academic-1-4686858, Pew Report http://www.people-press.org/2018/03/01/the-generation-gap-in-american-politics/

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As The Economist magazine poignantly wrote: “Inheritance is a process, not an event”.

According to Australian research, family businesses are ill prepared for succession planning, appointing a new CEO, or even a strategy for the future of the business.

The first consideration is whether anyone in the family even wants to take over the business – plenty of children have no interest. Then, decide if the current owner(s) want to hand it over. Any successful transition needs both of those things at the outset.

It might be better to either sell the business, or allowing a committed employee to take over rather than a disinterested and reluctant heir. If both generations are indeed willing, then significant planning is needed.

Articulating the long-term vision for the business, ensuring that younger family members are part of the process and have time to establish themselves as owner-managers within the business, and being ready to truly step away and allow the next generation autonomy to make changes are all essential.

Consider This: When did you start thinking about succession in your family business? If it was when your children became adults, is that 20 years too late? Original article: https://www.modoras.com/

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Family is (hopefully) for life. If the family business starts to interfere negatively with the relationships in the family, then there is imbalance. Family businesses are challenging because of the overlapping of family, business and ownership (known as the “three circle model”). Researchers from Harvard have extended this into four “rooms” by adding in the board room.

Because family members wear multiple hats, are in multiple circles, or sit in multiple rooms, they need an awareness of how those roles influence the decisions they need to make. Father or boss? Director or cousin? Manager or owner?

It’s most important to be able to have open and trusting conversations about needs of the business and expectations of the family. Those are underpinned by the core values and the common values across both personal and professional life. Each successive generation should ask why they are in the business. Successful family businesses foster a sense of stewardship among all members of the family (no matter what their specific roles).

Making multiple roles work requires setting boundaries between work time and family space. Conflict will happen, so rather than “fake harmony” (see previous article), the ability to communicate, deal with issues, and have “constructive conflict” is essential.

Some kind of a conscious separation of ownership and management is very helpful. Avoid having “too many chefs in the kitchen”. Family members who work in the business should be recruited and evaluated with the same criteria as anyone else. And “don’t hire whom you can’t fire”.

Consider This: Do family members involved in your family business understand the different hats they wear? Have you ever had to performance manage a family member employee? Do you have the governance structures to deal with conflict?

Original articles: https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbescoachescouncil/2021/04/22/how-to-balance-a-family-business-with-family-values-13-tips/?sh=1e3380cc11c7, https://www.country-guide.ca/guide-life/family-business-handbook-how-to-build-and-sustain-a-successful-enduring-enterprise/, https://www.businessobserverfl.com/article/five-steps-every-family-business-should-take-for-a-successful-succession, https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/company/corporate-trends/how-can-family-businesses-keep-themselves-from-splitting-by-separating-ownership-and-management/articleshow/81427776.cms, https://www.jdsupra.com/legalnews/defining-and-documenting-roles-in-a-1032865/

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Q: If the world’s two richest men cannot keep their wives happy, what hope do we have?

A: No, that’s not a real question – it’s a meme that circulated following the news of the divorce of Bill & Melinda Gates. Many people with wealth realise that money can’t make a wife (or anyone) happy, but that doesn’t stop them trying.

In business, sometimes we decide to “throwing money at a problem”. That means directing significant resources (financial and otherwise) towards solving the problem.

In families, throwing money at a problem is taken more literally – directing liquidity to placate unhappy family members. The assumption is that it will “smooth things over”, but because it uses money as a proxy for the underlying problem, it doesn’t address the underlying problem.

The best this response can hope to achieve is to kick the problem down the road, i.e. defer dealing with it or pretend it doesn’t exist. However, consider that (a) the problem is not solved, and (b) in the meantime, the underlying family issues can continue to fester and can actually become worse.

Consider This: Have you “thrown money” at a difficult family situation? Why? What did you expect to happen as a result? What actually happened?

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Increasing life expectancies have meant that for the first time in history, four generations are alive at the same time. This has important implications for the timing of the transition of family wealth.

There is an ‘inheritance boom’ coming when the Millennial generation inherit the wealth of the Baby Boomer generation, but this is expected to peak in 2035 when the average Millennial has already passed the age of 60!

Some wealth originators shudder at the idea of passing over the reins while they are still alive, having seen other children squander their family’s wealth. While there is always a risk that the next generation will blow it, the previous generation can reasonably argue that they don’t want to be around if/when that happens.

But is it reasonable to make the next generation wait that long? Granted, they will likely have many years to enjoy the wealth (and the control of the wealth), but holding back can create resentment and can be considered condescending and patronising.

Consider This: At what age do you think your children should inherit significant family assets? To what extent is that driven by your own experience? Whatever the age, what are you doing to prepare them for that eventuality?

Original article: https://www.moneywise.co.uk/news/2018-01-02/millennials-set-inheritance-boom-when-they-turn-61

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Consider This: Are members of your family more driven by greed or envy? While neither are good attributes, what can you do to mitigate their risks?

Greed and Envy are two of the ‘seven deadly sins’ and are relevant to material wealth. Economists adopt the fundamental principle that people seek wealth maximisation (a form of greed), but is this really the case?

Because we live in communities and families, it can be argued that the more significant driver of behaviour is envy, because we invariably compare and benchmark ourselves to those around us.

For the economists among you, the analysis is in the link below, but more broadly interesting is the implications for family wealth.

If envy is a greater driver of behaviour than greed, then the principles of equity and fairness become all the more important when transitioning wealth within a family. Within families, envy can be a far more destructive attribute. Any gift (in the broadest sense, so including a role that is ‘given’ to a family member) should be considered in the context of how other family members may react and respond.

Original article: http://falkenblog.blogspot.com.au/2010/03/why-envy-dominates-greed.html (very dry)

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Consider this from two perspectives: the family and the individual. Do families demand that younger generations prove themselves in some way, perhaps before being allowed to join the family business or take some other role with respect to the family assets?

The other side is the view of the younger family member. Being born into wealth can be a lodestone, especially the way ‘privilege’ is a dirty word in some circles. The world loves a rags-to-riches story, but subsequent generations that don’t start with ‘rags’ are automatically ineligible.

That makes the story of Tamir Triguboff – great-nephew of the second richest man in Australia – an interesting one. Without a cent of family money, he developed an app, which he sold for AUD 85K. He’s using half of the proceeds from the sale to fund his next venture – “a social platform that enables young people to voice their opinions on social issues”.

Consider This: How do you (or would you) handle a request from a family member for funding their business idea? To what extent should family members need to prove themselves? Would you want to see their story on the front page of the local newspaper? Is this even newsworthy – while they may not have relied on family money for the venture, have they overly relied on surname for publicity?

Original article: http://www.smh.com.au/technology/smartphone-apps/my-parents-haven-t-given-me-a-single-cent-grandson-of-australia-s-second-richest-person-out-to-prove-himself-20171217-p4yxsl.html

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And does being ‘happy’ mean something different to those who have wealth and those who don’t? These are the questions considered in a recent research study.

Most anyone who has wealth would find it obvious that the answer to the first question is a resounding ‘no’, but it takes the rigour of an academic to first define happiness (life satisfaction and a set of distinct positive emotions), and then examine the correlation between them and wealth or social class.

So the answer to the second question is ‘yes’. But how are they different? For those of higher social class, happiness is reflected in self-oriented feelings like pride and contentment, which may reflect their desire for independence and self-sufficiency.

On the other hand, lower classes exhibit other-oriented feelings of compassion and love as their expression of happiness, which could help them cope with their more threatening environments.

Consider This: What makes you happy? How much of your happiness derives from wealth or consumption?

Original articles: from the LA Times http://www.latimes.com/science/sciencenow/la-sci-sn-happiness-rich-poor-20171219-story.html which is based on a research publication from the magazine Emotion http://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/emo-emo0000387.pdf (a very dry read for those academically inclined).

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